Hello! I've been a freelancer for over ten years, covering regional stories, sexual health, environmental concerns, political news, home and lifestyle topics, and sports. I was an editor at Wellnesspulse and was previously Giddy's women's health editor. I am also a certified sex coach. I live in Chicago with my partner and cat.
Special Sex Toy Cleaning Scenarios
If you’ve invested in a sex toy, deep cleaning after shared use, sanitizing after anal play, or disinfecting toys after an illness can ensure the longevity of your toy as well as the health of your body.
Some cleaning situations require extra care beyond routine washing. This will help address common concerns about bacteria, viruses, and cross-contamination.
Cleaning sex toys doesn’t have to be intimidating. Despite the different materials, the electronic components, or textured surfaces, we’...
Best Products for Cleaning Sex Toys
Cleaning might not be something we initially associate with sex or play time, but it is a task that should be priortized after using vibrators, dildos, and anal toys.
The reasons for cleaning your toys are because sex toys come into contact with our bodily fluids, and cleaning them is imperative for the safety of your body as well as the longevity of the toy.
Most toys can be surface-cleaned with liquid soap and warm water. However, others can be boiled in hot water for a more thorough disinf...
How to Clean Sex Toys Used with Silicone-Based Lubricants
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of our hygiene but it can also increase the longevity of the toy itself. Toys come in various different materials and cleaning them requires different instructions and cleaning solutions. And when you’ve doused your toy in a silicone-based lubricant, you may need to do some extra scrubbing to make sure your toy is squeaky clean and lube-free.
Silicone-based lubes can be tough to clean. The main reason for this is because they don’t dissolve in water, mea...
Why So Many Women Are Single Today: Social & Cultural Factors
Marriage rates aren’t what they used to be, and being in a relationship isn’t the priority anymore for many women across the globe. The growing trend of single women is expanding, and the shift is becoming more visible across all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic classes.
The many reasons for this include the reevaluation of traditional marriage, the increase in financial independence, higher standards for partners, and overall happiness in being single.
While staying single for life might no...
Are Condoms Waterproof? Understanding Condom Use in Water
You might think that because condoms are a barrier material that their latex material is completely waterproof. That’s understandable, as it would make sense that they can withstand wet and wild scenarios.
However, having sex in a water-based environment—for example, a pool, hot tub, or shower—could be pushing your condom to the limit.
So, while it’s an overarching common belief that condoms are waterproof, let’s explore the importance of condom reliability during sexual activity in a wet set...
Overusing Harsh Chemicals – Why It’s a Mistake for Sex Toy Cleaning
When it comes to cleaning our sex toys, more isn’t always better. Just because you might use bleach, alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide while cleaning your bathtub or pesky stains, doesn’t mean you should use chemicals on sex toys. These aren’t just objects in your home, they are being inserted into areas of your body, meaning that what goes on them should be body-safe as well.
While we’re glad you’re eager to learn more about proper hygiene, remember that everything should be used in moderation, ...
Most Popular Types of Sex Toys by State
By 2025, the American sex toy market is predicted to be worth over a whopping $11 billion. People are buying toys more than ever, with an estimated 50% of adults owning or having used one, according to the TENGA Self Pleasure Report. The majority of sex toy owners are women, and range in age from their 20s to their 50s.
E-commerce has made shopping for sex toys much easier, too, creating more privacy, anonymity, and ease.
Ohdoki, the creators behind The Handy, surveyed 2,000 Americans to find...
Spearfishing Makes a Splash in Michigan
How one man’s passion brought new life to the sport in the Great Lakes
At 7 a.m. on a warm Sunday morning last fall in Alpena, Michigan, we arrived at the shores of Thunder Bay on Lake Huron to meet Jonathan Durtka, who was already on his boat at the dock, organizing his gear and making room for us on the bow. We were wetsuit-less, snorkel-less and wide-eyed. We wouldn’t be speargun fishing with Durtka, which involves the sport of harvesting a fish with a single breath, but simply watching—an...
‘South Side’ Pope Leo offers video message to Chicagoans at ballpark mass
Pontiff addresses young people at baseball stadium on Saturday amid ‘No Kings’ protests across the country
Pope Leo XIV, born in Dolton, Illinois, and a White Sox baseball fan, has been anointed by Chicagoans as the “South Side Pope”, appearing via video on Saturday at the White Sox ballpark to offer a message to young people.
At a mass organized by the archdiocese of Chicago in honor of the new pope, attendees wore baseball jerseys while nuns in habits congregated near the entrance. Others d...
I was already struggling to plan my wedding on a tight $10,000 budget — and then I was laid off
I was surprised when my parents gave me $5,000 for my wedding, bringing our budget to $10,000.
On a tight budget, I got creative with the planning, but then I was laid off.
Although I don't know what the future holds, I'm still getting married on an even tighter budget.
I wasn't born into money. I live paycheck to paycheck on a $70,000 salary while paying off credit cards and college loans from 16 years ago. But still, I'm planning my dream wedding.
I was incredibly surprised when my parents ...
Waterproof vs. Non-Waterproof Toys – Cleaning Guide
Sex is supposed to be messy. Bedsheets and bodies are usually doused in liquids, spit, sweat, and lube, but at the end of the day, sex should still be hygienic, especially when it comes to sex toys. After all, we’re exposing our vulnerable parts to some sticky situations.
In this article, we’ll explore the differences between cleaning waterproof, splashproof, and non-waterproof sex toys. We’ll also discuss how to store toys properly and common mistakes to avoid.
So, while we can enjoy the cha...
How To Ensure Consent When Introducing BDSM
We might be familiar with whips, chains, and handcuffs, but bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism — also known as BDSM — is an erotic practice that goes well beyond what we might have read in Fifty Shades of Grey.
First and foremost, safe BDSM involves a much more dynamic conversation around consent since power dynamics, restraint, and intense sensations make up the core foundations of BDSM scenes. Therefore, BDSM consent is essential.
For folks interested in BDSM, it’s imperative to kno...
Common Cleaning Mistakes and How To Avoid Them
Proper sex toy hygiene matters when it comes to cleaning sex toys. This means being knowledgeable about materials, irritants, and basic sanitation. Regular cleaning can prevent infections, maintain integrity, and extend the product’s lifespan.
The consequences of sex toy cleaning mistakes—AKA incorrect cleaning—can lead to bacterial buildup, skin irritation, and toy degradation. Damage to your products can compromise your safety.
Our sex toy cleaning guide will include a breakdown of common c...
How To Safely Clean Toys Used During Menstrual Periods
Just because it’s your time of the month doesn’t mean using your sex toys is taboo. In fact, masturbation can ease period cramps and improve sleep and stress, so by all means, use your toys for relief. Many people, on their periods, see an increase in libido and desire due to hormonal fluctuations.
While we are here to tell you that masturbation and menstruation are totally healthy and normal, cleaning your sex toys is a necessary part of this activity. Disinfecting your toys is the best way ...
Will the Vampire of the Great Lakes Rise Again?
Sydney Currier, the Aquatic Invasive Species Coordinator from the Invasive Species Centre (ISC) in Canada, says much of their work involves teaching the public about sea lamprey prevention. She says they have “leathery, scaleless skin in shades of grey or brown,” with sharp teeth and a “raspy tongue.”
Sea lampreys are native to the Atlantic Ocean, and historically, Niagara Falls—which separates Lake Ontario and Lake Erie—had prevented sea lampreys from traveling any further into the freshwate...