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The body in focus
While living alone in the woods of northern California at the start of 2020, Lilli Carré started learning chess. Like many folks deep into the pandemic, she took up a new hobby. While trying to draw inspiration for her work, she incorporated her new vehicle for communication when all touch and connection were lost.
Carré’s fourth solo show at Western Exhibitions, “Arrangement in the Steps of a Horse,” opened March 12. The show’s title comes from a classic move in chess where the knight touche...
The best lesbian sex toys
Your guide to the best lesbian sex toys — from vibrators to dildos and non-anatomical pleasure aids — plus tips from a sex and relationship coach to help you find the right sex toy for you
Sex toys are no longer something that you hide in the back of your underwear drawer. In fact, statistics published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Theory show that 52.5% of women in the United States now use some kind of vibrator — and for good reason.
Sex toys can enhance intimacy between you and a partn...
The 17th annual porn film festival is back in person
The long-running porn festival HUMP! Fest (organized by Chicago Reader sex columnist Dan Savage) made its way to the Music Box last weekend after being canceled last year.
Crammed into the theater, kinksters, queers, and film buffs once again had a rip-roaring raunchy time while fisting, needle play, and clown sex was unveiled onscreen through genres of comedy, horror, and animation.
What makes HUMP—which kicked off its 17th year—so thrilling is, of course, watching porn on the big screen, bu...
When Indecent Exposure Happens to You
Recently, I was propped up on a beach somewhere in the South. It was my friend's bachelorette party weekend, and I had taken a few days off work and was bathing in the sun before heading back to Chicago, where the cold would whip my face.
I was reading a book, content with the empty shore surrounding me. "Not a soul in sight," I texted my friends in our group chat. Behind me was a small wooded area and in front of me was the ocean. I was there for a little more than an hour, eyes sluggish and...
Are neon signs really enough?
There’s a young person smiling, posing—hand on their hip—in front of a lit-up sign that reads: “EMPOWER WOMEN.” It intermittently flashes to include ED, making it “EMPOWERED.” The photo is snapped, the couple walks on. I’ve just entered Andrea Bowers’s retrospective at the Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago.
Since the 90s, Bowers has been making work that nods at activism, joint action, and change on the west coast. In the exhibition catalog, curators Michael Darling (former chief curator at ...
Between the flesh and the machine
Skin and stone, organic and sterile, hard and soft: juxtapositions aren’t new in art. This push-and-pull tactic has been done, and done again, but it’s not always executed well. New York-based artist Hannah Levy manages to push and pull her viewers in the right direction for her new solo exhibition, “Hannah Levy: Surplus Tension,” now on view at the Arts Club of Chicago. Levy exaggerates form—into curves and lumps—as well as challenges our ideas of modern design. The large-scale sculptural wo...
Get on Your Knees is about more than your average blow job
There’s more to fellatio than just a climax. It’s absolutely frightening, holding something that fragile in between your teeth, and hoping, wishing, praying that you’re perfecting the act— the duty of the illustrious blow job.
Comedian and author Jacqueline Novak dives right into those anxieties in her one-woman show, Get on Your Knees. The salaciousness, the stress, and the humor are all wrapped up in the award-winning show that Novak will be performing for four nights at the Den Theatre.
No...
Where the water flows
About a month ago, I saw a magnet being hurled over the 18th Street Bridge. Initially, I brushed it off and I continued to stroll along the Chicago River bank with my friends. But the sound of the splash carried some weight, like an anchor or rock colliding with the water. I expected the line to be empty, but then I saw that the two magnet throwers on the bridge were pulling up what appeared to be a barrier gate (the kind you see at large concerts). This is when I was first introduced to magn...
A Date With My Dilator
Lying on my bed, bedsheets ruffled, legs up and pantless, I wait for the moment of insertion. I fumble with the smooth silicone device—this one is a dark purple, the last one was a light blue. The lights are dimmed, the flicker of the TV illuminates my hands and suddenly I gasp—it's in!
Vaginal dilator therapy is a type of treatment suggested by specialists to help train the pelvic floor muscles to accept objects the vagina would previously reject or clamp down on due to involuntary muscle sp...
What Is a Silver Nitrate Treatment and Why Is It Going on My Cervix?
"You're putting what on where?" I thought after I first heard of a silver nitrate treatment—an intense-sounding solution to some minimal bleeding on my cervix seen during a regular Pap screening. My doctor gave me a half-assed explanation of why I was receiving the treatment and left me in the dark as to what was going on below the belt. I wouldn't find out until later that it was because of lesions from HPV.
When the treatment was applied to my cervix, a sudden warm sensation began to wash o...
An examination of the self and of others
When Rebecca Baruc was 11 years old, she began to show her drawings from her journal to a teacher, Barbara Herzberg. For eight years, Baruc would study alongside Herzberg where she would focus on still lifes and draw from reality. It wouldn't be until college—at Skidmore in New York—that she would begin to dive into abstraction, sculpture, conceptual art, and performance art. Growing from this exploration, she began to draw the people she loves.
But the pandemic halted that.
"I had just left ...
Review: IT MATTERS HOW WE GO
Chelsea Ross wants us to talk about death. This inevitable thing that comes for us all shouldn’t (and can’t) be avoided. Ross tells me over email, “I believe [death] can be beautiful when the shame and secrecy is removed. And it’s the one thing, other than birth, that we all have in common.” For a society obsessed with youth and living forever, death is something that will ultimately take us all—and to ignore that is to miss out on a discussion on life.
Life is made up of a series of losses. ...
Tiger Strikes Asteroid comes together in ‘It feels like the first time’
The nonprofit, artist-run network Tiger Strikes Asteroid has five locations across the U.S. in Los Angeles, Philadelphia, New York, Chicago, and Greenville, South Carolina. Their network of artists is vast, as they work to promote emerging, mid-career, and established creatives. "It feels like the first time," a new show at Mana Contemporary in Pilsen, grazes the surface of the artists involved in the community.
Started in 2009, the roster of people connected to TSA is constantly evolving. Cu...
Why Do I Get a Stomachache After Sex?
Walking side-to-side may seem like a sexual feat to Ariana Grande, but for me, hobbling home with a sore stomach is not the post-sex feeling I'm chasing after. And this type of pain is much more than a little achiness after aggressive thrusting, something typically attributed to a lack of lubrication or pulling a muscle. Right after orgasm, I curl up in a ball and wait for the intense throbbing to pass. It feels similar to menstrual cramps, lasting up to two hours along the lower region of my...
Unionizing to keep the Experimental Station community alive
It's no secret that Experimental Station (ES) is unique. The Woodlawn space has various tenants but it isn't just art-focused. It’s a museum, it’s a coffee shop, it’s a farmer’s market. When explaining the space to folks who don't live in the area, it can sound like a utopia of sorts, a place where people can create and work alongside one another, a central nervous center of community-focused people working within their neighborhood on projects they are passionate about. Without the employees...